After 50, no one minds your resting bitch face

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For most of my life I worked on a neutral face that didn’t look mean or unappealing in order to appease the smile bullies. After 50, I’ve moved into a protected class: females who no longer owe anyone a sweet expression.

Murders make me feel better: the comforting joys of Law & Order, Columbo, and Perry Mason

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Hi, my name is Dixie and I’m addicted to TV mysteries. (Hi Dixie.) I’ve been engaged and comforted by television whodunits since I was a little girl, and I have no intention of stopping, or even trying to stop watching now. From Perry Mason to Columbo, you get something from these TV series you don’t, and […]

Vagina Dialogue: The more you know about your lady bits, the more you can enjoy

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I’m here to say it’s about time my mons veneris was venerable, that our labia majora were considered major… you get the idea.

I could have tried harder, but what about happenstance?

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How did I plan to become a teacher-turned-weight lifter-turned-TV producer to writer? That’s the thing, I didn’t. Nothing was planned, but it all worked because I worked at it.

Old lives tale: Menopause is not a death sentence

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Aging happens to all of us, and it’s not a death sentence. OK, it is a death sentence, but again, it happens to all of us, so stop being babies and let’s start being old ladies.

COVID divorce aside, what does gray divorce mean now?

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Boomers are the first generation of women to seek marriage and self-fulfillment.

A title called You: Who are you without your job?

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Whether you’ve been laid off, nearing retirement, or just ready for a new life chapter, think about what makes you YOU.

The best part of aging? Earning the right to give less f—s

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In the first edition of Age Against the Machine, Dixie Laite tells it like it is: “I’ve been through a lot, I’ve done a lot, and I am not to be fucked with.”