Dear Dixie says, “Dream big. … Ruminating about the past doesn’t do you or anyone else any good.”

I wish there was more info out there about early menopause and that I didn’t feel like I need to discuss it in hushed tones 

Dixie Laite shares insightful advice for a 46-year-old woman considering whether to try a threesome.

My husband’s a great guy but terrible communicator and it’s so frustrating. What can I do to improve our relationship?

I think my boyfriend is the one but he keeps love-bombing me and then pushing me away. Should we keep trying or give it up?

A reader follows up with Dixie after taking her advice about her distant husband. Submit your questions to Dixie for some no-bullshit advice.

A reader writes in to ask, “Do I look past my husband pining for his previous wife?” Are you a woman over 40? Submit your questions to Dixie for some no-bullshit advice.

A reader writes to advice columnist Dixie, “I met someone online, but heard through the grapevine she’s from a bad crowd. Should I still date her?” Are you a woman over 40? Submit your questions to Dixie—she’ll respond with kindness and no bullshit in equal measure.

A reader writes to advice columnist Dixie, “Is it selfish to let certain friendships fall away?” Are you a woman over 40? Submit your questions to Dixie—she’ll respond with kindness and no bullshit in equal measure.

A reader writes to advice columnist Dixie, “I’m in my 50s and still self-conscious. Aren’t I supposed to be confident by now?” Are you a woman over 40? Submit your questions to Dixie—she’ll respond with kindness and no bullshit in equal measure.